So I've emailed
Overwater Hall which is just down the road from
the church (well, as much as anything is just down the road in Cumbria). I know my mother is in love with the place, and the grounds are really beautiful, with Over Water right next to the hotel and then Skiddaw in the background.
I feel like I should really be more concerned about sorting things out. I've got this feeling that one day I'm suddenly going to realise that we really are getting married and it will be far too late to organise everything.